Let me show you something.
In 2 Samuel 13:1, it says that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
Did what?
Loved her. Okay!
Go to verse two, he said Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister. The guy love, what he calls love was that he became sick, he has fever. You see the mentality that once you cannot control it, is true love.
You hear some people say I’ve never really met a man or a woman that swept me off my feet.
Anybody who sweeps you off your feet is a kidnapper because when you have true love you have to be on your feet. You have to choose to love, I will show you now. Nobody should sweep you off your feet, any man or woman you meet and you discover that you can’t control yourself anymore, run away, that’s not love.
I’m going to show you, but the truth is the kind of thing they call love is sweeter and it’s more attractive, you know he calls you 1am, he calls you 2am, he calls you 3am, he’s not in love. He is jobless he has no work. He calls you 4am, that’s not love, he’s jobless…that’s very sweet, it’s sweet o, it’sweet.
You send message, 2 hours both you are chatting. You chat, How are you?, how are you? Where are you coming from? Are you Okay? do you think about me? It sounds nice. That sounds like love, but sir, that’s not true love. When he tells you say, when you say 1 am
Why can’t you, Why can’t you just allow me rest?
He says I can’t control it
When he breaks up with you, he can control it.
